Abusing the abused

It has been a LONG time since I have the time, space and mental energy to be able to write.  It’s the thing that I have to keep myself on a level and the first thing to indicate if my head is not in a very good place.  Once it’s established that one of these […]

Dependency – blessing or curse?

Dependency seems to be one of those things that people fear.  They kinda take it for granted where children are concerned, almost like it was part of the contract that they signed when they decided that they were going to make a mini version of themselves, but don’t seem to realise that it also comes […]

Enter Sandman – the beginning

Every now and then you come across one of those people that you know is going to be a part of your life forever.  Given, it’s not always the most positive thing in the world but there’s something special about knowing that a connection will exist with someone forever, no matter how many gaps of […]

Fighting the noise

When does it become acceptable to let yourself give in to that base instinct of wallowing when things get too much?  We all have our limits, we all have periods of struggle, we all have varying degrees of challenge but what makes people give in to it all at varying speeds?  One thing i’ve found, […]

The evolution of friendship or other

One thing I find utterly fascinating is the way that the relationships we have with different people evolve.  It’s inevitable that as time goes on you are likely to change as a person, as is the other in the equation, and because of this it means that the relationship you have has to also evolve […]

Mistakes to be learned from

For a long time, I spent my life completely controlled by another person.  Invariably, this control was entirely abused and became an exercise of power/intimidation.  It’s amazing how gradual an abuse of power is undertaken and the effect that it eventually leaves.  Interestingly, you never really realise you are the great invisible force until something […]