Everybody changes

We’re all guilty of waking up one day and realising that the thing you have done every day, no longer seems the right thing to do.  It can be anything: something minuscule, something gigantor, something physical, something emotional or something mental.  Either way, it just suddenly feels wrong.  We all know that we change but […]

Ex, text and sex cycle

Are endings ever truly real endings?  Do people ever really leave your life forever?  In my life there seems to be some kind of cycle where, seemingly out of the blue, a whole bunch of people will just pop back into my world for no apparent reason.  The obvious exception would be people who have […]

The insecurity trap

I’ve just been speaking with someone I met years ago while I was between marriages;  We text pretty much daily, actually.  He’s in a full time relationship now and I’m obviously married so the dynamics of our discussions are slightly different than the were when we knew each other before.  We were always very open […]

Fighting the noise

When does it become acceptable to let yourself give in to that base instinct of wallowing when things get too much?  We all have our limits, we all have periods of struggle, we all have varying degrees of challenge but what makes people give in to it all at varying speeds?  One thing i’ve found, […]

My own little ray of sunshine

I am lucky to have so many special people in my life.  People come and go in your life but I’ve been lucky enough to have stumbled upon more keepers than most.  My husband is often telling me that I seem to collect people.  I have a new experience and collect a new friend, regardless […]